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INCELs Strike Again

Old Problem, New Threat

And God blessed them. And God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” Genesis 1:28

They call themselves INCELS, or “Involuntary celibates — young men depressed by their inability to get a girlfriend. This is not a new phenomenon…after all, men have lamented their inability to snag a mate since time immemorial. When I was in school, the inability to hook up with a member of the opposite sex was probably the norm, not the exception. I guess most of us could have called ourselves “INCELS” at one time or another.

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But now something’s changed. The internet allows many of these guys to turn to pornography and violent video games to soothe their frustration. So much time online takes them deep into a toxic mix of loneliness and isolation.

Jared Reed is an Associate Pastor at Granite Hills Baptist Church in Reno, Nevada. When I sat down with him to discuss this issue, he said very directly, “Look, this is a problem across the country, but I believe our area is especially bad. We have so many young guys who are addicted to porn, video games, and social media. It is undoubtedly a form of slavery.”

“We’re not talking about a fun thing to do with somebody physically sitting next to you for a few minutes on a rainy afternoon,” He continued. “We’re talking about weeks poured into an immersive environment, and at a very high cost.” Reed went on to relate a story of one man who was spending as much of his limited income on video games every month as he was on rent. That’s a problem.

Young men are increasingly hanging out with friends in the virtual world via massive multiplayer online games more than they are spending time with people in the real world, “meatspace,” as some call it. Online, they can form teams, explore and conquer worlds, shoot bad guys, pilot or parachute from planes, all without leaving the well-padded, air-conditioned comfort of their bedrooms.

The Author at age ~10
When I was a kid we’d go exploring, conquering, fighting and such too. We called it “playing outside.” Believe me, the graphics were incredible. Zero-latency.

But today’s young men are not allowed to do that, even if they wanted to. A report investigating the relationship between exposure to nature and mental health1 found that the average distance a young man is allowed to roam from his home unsupervised in 2020 is only about 300 yards. Most Americans spend 93% of their time indoors! Contrast that to my grandfather’s generation, which according to this report spent more time outdoors than in, walked most everywhere and roamed up to six miles away from home unsupervised.

When I was a kid, I rode my bike everywhere. It was about four miles to our church and a little more to my best friend Shane’s house. Between going to school, doing my paper route, and visiting friends I easily racked up ten miles a day or more on my old BMX.

Today’s kids are barely allowed to leave their front lawn. Many parents would say that’s because of the threat of abduction. Some whack job or pervert is likely to grab their kid off the street and murder him. Only that’s not borne out by the data. According to a report from the federal Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention, of the 73.9 million children in America, only about a hundred of those are kidnapped each year by someone unknown to them. Ninety-three percent of those are eventually returned alive to their families. That means a kid in America today has a 0.00000014 chance of being kidnapped and murdered by some rando while out playing unsupervised. A kid is 1,600 times more likely to drown than be abducted.

But the mere perception of danger is enough for many American parents to treat their kids like useless toy poodles and keep them indoors, drive them anywhere they need to go, and as a result, make them much more likely to be obese, isolated, and antisocial.

Human beings were created for physical touch. We thrive on it. From breastfeeding to kissing to handshakes to wrestling to the very act of procreation, we are hard-wired to need human touch. Babies who are not held and cuddled often fail to thrive. Marriages fail, too, when there is no intimacy. Everyone needs touch.

But INCELS very often live their lives devoid of physical interaction of any kind. Their lives are spent online, connected to the entire world like never before but starving for love and physical affection. To make matters worse, they are almost universally addicted to porn, which cruelly forces them into the role of spectators to the most intimate of human touch, a constant reminder of what they don’t have. This creates in them a profound level of anger and self-loathing.

22-year-old self-described INCEL (name withheld) went on a killing spree in Isla Vista, California in 2014 to punish women who would not go out with him.
They begin to resent the world of “normies,” those people they see at school or in town who appear to have everything. They begin to hate “Chads,” who personify men who are perhaps richer or more attractive than they are, and “Stacys,” the “shallow” women who partner with them.

These INCEL men end up congregating in online chat groups at places like 4chan, and sort of stew in their own juices. They complain to each other about the inability to find a partner, about how shallow women are, and convince each other that they have a right to the kind of circus-act sexual trysts they see in pornographic movies. And because their world doesn’t readily offer up those opportunities, they come to believe the world deserves to be punished.

This is where things get dangerous.

Mark Lundgren is a former FBI agent who has been tracking this phenomenon. As we discussed it one day, he told me, “INCELS are made up of mostly white younger men who have sort of descended into a dark place on the internet, an echo chamber that is reverberating with a toxic ideology. They don’t think anything’s going to change in the world. They are extremely nihilistic and believe society needs to be punished. It’s a movement we’re seeing rise up much more significantly than we have in the past.”

Indeed we are. The FBI has identified at least four active violence attacks and forty-five deaths in the past few years that have been carried out by men adhering to INCEL ideology.

In 2014, a man identifying with the INCEL movement killed six and injured fourteen in Isla Vista, California. Before going on his rampage, he wrote, “I’ve been forced to endure an existence of loneliness, rejection, and unfulfilled desires all because girls have never been attracted to me.” He went on to say, “One day INCELS will realize their true strength and numbers, and will overthrow this oppressive feminist system. Start envisioning a world where WOMEN FEAR YOU.”

In 2015, a 26-year-old INCEL murdered nine people and wounded others before committing suicide at Umpqua Community College in Roseburg, Oregon. He, too, lamented his inability to get a girl.

In 2017, an INCEL killed two students at a high school in New Mexico before killing himself. Before the event, he wrote, “Work sucks, school sucks, life sucks. I just want out of this [expletive].”

The massacre of 17 high schoolers at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida, happened on Valentine’s Day, and not for no reason. The shooter has become the poster boy for many in the INCEL movement.

A mass shooting was thwarted in January 2019 in Provo, Utah, after a 27-year-old man posted the following on his social media account, “I’ve never had a girlfriend before and I’m still a virgin, this is why I’m planning on shooting up a public place soon and being the next mass shooter cause I’m ready to die and all the girls the [sic] turned me down is going to make it right by killings as many girls as I see.”

Aside from their obvious failures with women, how many of these guys do you think got zero hugs and pats on the back at home? How many of them would you think were heavily into violent video games? How many were addicted to online porn? If you guessed all of them, you’d be right.

But these kinds of addictions aren’t just the domain of unemployed losers who are one step from plunging over the brink. In our interview, Pastor Jared said, “Of the men I’ve counseled over the past five years, I cannot recall one for whom pornography isn’t a struggle. And we’re not just talking about young single men. I’ve counseled men from 17 to 75 who were struggling with porn addiction.”

Two young men from his church agreed to share their journey away from these addictions with me. Carson and Allen (not their real names) both struggled with video games and porn addiction.

Carson, age 37 and now married told me, “Video games definitely make you more reclusive, just by their nature, and made me less sociable. With pornography I’d say looking back it gave me unbelievably high expectations that no woman would be able to achieve.”

His buddy Austin, age 20 said of the games he used to play, “It’s all violence. And for me, a lot of those video games they make you angry. And you might play for a couple of hours and maybe you don’t win and you just…it just leaves me mad and it just kind of sets the tone for the rest of the day.”

This underscores why human interaction and especially human touch are so important. Mark Lundgren agreed. “Without community surrounding us,” he said, “We can go so deep into the internet, so isolated, so without hope, so dark and that I think can absolutely be a tool of strategic evil when it’s not checked.”

Jared agreed 100%. “The real change seems to happen when they are ready to get radical about dealing with this sin, putting it to death,” he said, paraphrasing Colossians 3:5. “Men who make the changes, who start to experience victory in this area, it’s a wonderful snowball.”

He’s right. Unlike Heracles and his new pet Cerberus, it’s not enough to try to chain up your hidden sins. A man of prowess must go all in. He must tear out and throw into the fire those things that cause him to give in. He must hunt down his weaknesses and kill them by embracing hardship in this life.

Fortunately, a man submitted to the Holy Spirit has help in this endeavor. Carson put it this way: “I gave my life to Christ, and I couldn’t do any of those things anymore. It completely purged me of my pornography addiction, my alcohol addiction, I completely lost interest in all my video games.”

Not every man will have such a black-and-white experience. I’ve been saved for decades and still struggle with besetting sins. Engaging the enemy of our own weakness is a daily battle every man must fight. In so doing, we will undoubtedly have a few setbacks now and then, but we never lose unless we stop fighting. The Apostle Paul knew what that was like, when he wrote, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” (2 Timothy 4:7)

My book Prowess — The Man You Were Meant To Be is for those of us who are still in the fight. It’s a manual to help you learn how to win in very practical, down-to-earth ways. The book is primarily aimed at the young lions who often approach me after a speaking engagement with questions about how to do manhood right. But even if you aren’t a young lion, it’s good to remember the really important things now and then.

This article is an excerpt of the book “Prowess — The Man You Were Meant To Be” by Chuck Holton

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The German Fighter Pilot Who Refused to Shoot

In the skies over Germany in 1943, an American bomber crew was defenseless and far from home. The German fighter pilot sent to destroy them made a decision that neither side would forget.

On the morning of Dec. 20, 1943, 21-year-old Second Lt. Charles “Charlie” Brown lifted a B-17F Flying Fortress from an airfield in England and headed toward Germany. Brown was flying his first combat mission as an aircraft commander with the 379th Bomb Group, and his crew’s target was an aircraft factory at Bremen. By the time the Americans turned for home, however, their bomber—nicknamed Ye Olde Pub—had been so badly damaged that simply keeping it in the air had become an accomplishment.

German anti-aircraft fire and fighters had torn into the B-17. One engine was out and others were damaged. The aircraft’s tail and control surfaces had been shredded, much of its defensive armament was no longer functioning, and several crewmen were wounded. Tail gunner Staff Sgt. Hugh Eckenrode had been killed. Brown himself was wounded, and the bomber had fallen away from the protection of its formation.

Somehow, Ye Olde Pub continued flying.

Then Brown looked out of his cockpit and saw a Messerschmitt Bf 109 alongside him.

Under ordinary circumstances, there would have been little mystery about what happened next. A lone, crippled American heavy bomber over Germany was precisely the kind of target a Luftwaffe fighter pilot was supposed to destroy. The German pilot had the weapons, the position and the opportunity to finish the job.

But Franz Stigler did not fire.

A Fighter Pilot Finds a Helpless Enemy

Stigler was an experienced Luftwaffe pilot who had already survived years of combat. When he encountered Brown's aircraft, he approached intending to shoot it down. What he found as he drew closer changed his mind.

The B-17 was barely recognizable as a combat-capable aircraft. Stigler could see enormous holes in its fuselage and the destruction around its tail. More importantly, he could see the men inside. Some were wounded, and other crewmen were trying to help them. The bomber's guns were largely silent.

To Stigler, they no longer looked like an enemy bomber crew in the middle of a fight. They looked like wounded men trying to survive.

Years later, he explained his decision simply: “I cannot kill these half-dead people. It would be like shooting at a parachute.”

That distinction mattered to Stigler because of something he had learned earlier in the war. He had been taught that a fighter pilot did not shoot an enemy airman hanging helplessly beneath a parachute. There were supposed to be limits even in combat, boundaries that separated killing an enemy who could fight back from simply executing a defenseless man.

Whatever uniform the men inside the B-17 were wearing, Stigler decided that the same principle applied to them.

It was an extraordinary decision precisely because Stigler had every reason not to make it. According to an account published by Air & Space Forces Magazine, he had already shot down two four-engine bombers that day, and another victory would have put him in position for one of Germany's highest military decorations. Deliberately allowing an enemy bomber to escape could also have brought severe punishment if his actions became known.

He let it go anyway.

An Enemy Becomes an Escort

Stigler initially tried to persuade Brown to land in Germany, where the wounded Americans could receive treatment as prisoners of war. Brown refused. Stigler then attempted to communicate another possibility: turn toward neutral Sweden.

Communication between two aircraft in flight was difficult enough. Communication between enemy pilots who did not share a radio frequency was nearly impossible. Brown could see the German gesturing but could not fully understand what he wanted.

So Stigler made another choice.

Instead of leaving the Americans to their fate, he remained beside them.

The Messerschmitt flew alongside the crippled B-17 as Brown continued toward the German coast. The sight was almost absurd: one of Hitler's fighters escorting an American bomber that had just participated in a raid over Germany. Stigler stayed with Ye Olde Pub for several miles and accompanied the bomber toward the North Sea.

Eventually, there was nothing more he could do.

Stigler pulled alongside Brown one final time, raised his hand in salute and turned back toward Germany.

Brown still had roughly 250 miles of the North Sea ahead of him. Against considerable odds, Ye Olde Pub made the crossing and landed safely at Seething in England. Of the crew aboard the B-17, Eckenrode was the only man who did not survive the mission.

Brown told his superiors what had happened during his debriefing. Stigler, meanwhile, kept quiet about what he had done. The encounter disappeared into the enormous history of a war that still had nearly two years left to run.

But Brown never forgot the German pilot.

Searching for the Man Who Spared Them

More than four decades passed.

Brown built a career after the war, but the image of the German fighter flying beside his shattered B-17 stayed with him. In 1986, he began trying to identify the Luftwaffe pilot who had spared his crew. The search eventually led him to place a notice in a publication for former German fighter pilots.

In 1990, a response arrived from Canada.

The writer was Franz Stigler.

The two men compared details that would have been difficult for anyone else to know: the location of the encounter, the condition of the aircraft, the gestures made between the cockpits and the final salute before the German fighter turned away.

Brown had found him.

The encounter that followed was perhaps even more remarkable than the one over Germany. The two former enemies became close friends. Their families grew close as well, and the pilots began appearing together publicly to tell the story of the day one of them had been ordered to destroy the other.

Former U.S. Army Air Forces pilot Charlie Brown and Luftwaffe fighter pilot Franz Stigler reunited decades after their extraordinary encounter over Germany and developed a lasting friendship

Their friendship was not built on pretending that the war had not mattered. Brown's crew had bombed Germany. Stigler had fought for Germany. Men on both sides had killed and watched friends die. Nothing about their later friendship erased those realities.

What connected them was one decision made when nobody would have blamed Stigler for doing exactly what the war expected of him.

He chose not to.

Honor in a Place Designed to Destroy It

It is tempting to make stories like this sentimental. That would miss what makes this one so powerful.

Stigler's decision mattered because the circumstances gave him every incentive to make the opposite choice. Nobody aboard Ye Olde Pub could have stopped him. Brown was his enemy. Germany was fighting for survival, German cities were being bombed, and Stigler himself had suffered losses during the war. Yet he decided there was still a line he would not cross.

War has a way of reducing people to categories: friendly or enemy, ally or adversary, target or threat. Military necessity often requires exactly that kind of thinking. But the danger comes when the uniform becomes the only thing one can see. Stigler got close enough to Ye Olde Pub to see something else.

He saw wounded young men.

That moment did not end the war. It did not change the strategic bombing campaign or alter the outcome of the conflict. The following morning, Americans and Germans continued trying to kill one another across Europe. But nine American airmen who might otherwise have died eventually went home because one German pilot decided that duty did not require him to abandon his humanity.

Charlie Brown and Franz Stigler remained friends for the rest of their lives. Both men died in 2008, only months apart. Their story has endured because it says something larger than either man's wartime record. Courage is not always demonstrated by pulling the trigger. Sometimes it is demonstrated by refusing to pull it when everything around you says that you should.

On a cold December day over Germany, Franz Stigler had an enemy aircraft in his gunsight and every reason to destroy it.

Instead, he escorted it home.

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Russia’s war against Ukraine is approaching another critical winter, but the most important developments are no longer confined to the front lines. Moscow is assembling additional forces, threatening European countries that provide weapons to Kyiv and demonstrating an increasing willingness to test how far it can go beyond Ukraine without provoking a direct response from NATO.

I’ll be heading back to Eastern Europe next week to report on this situation firsthand, including several days inside Ukraine as well as stops in Poland and Lithuania. I intend to visit some of the places where Russia’s pressure on Europe is becoming increasingly visible and to examine a question that is becoming harder for NATO governments to avoid: How much Russian aggression can take place outside Ukraine before Europe decides that the conflict has crossed a new threshold?

The timing of the trip is significant because Ukraine appears to be approaching one of the most consequential periods of the war. Russia continues to absorb enormous battlefield losses while attempting to replace men, equipment and infrastructure faster than Ukraine can destroy them. At the same time, Moscow is reportedly preparing another large mobilization for a winter campaign, while Russian forces are building up in areas that could threaten Ukraine from additional directions. In my assessment, this winter could go a long way toward determining which side ultimately emerges with the advantage.

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One of the most intriguing developments came with CIA Director John Ratcliffe’s unannounced visit to Moscow. The trip was unusual not simply because America’s intelligence chief traveled to Russia, but because there appeared to be little effort to conceal it. Ratcliffe reportedly arrived aboard a conspicuous American military aircraft, spent roughly two hours on the ground and met with Russian intelligence officials before leaving. The United States has offered little public explanation for what was discussed.

Russian officials subsequently attempted to characterize the meeting as routine contact between intelligence services. I find that explanation difficult to accept. Intelligence chiefs certainly communicate with their counterparts, including adversaries, but an urgent trip to Moscow under these circumstances suggests something more serious than an ordinary exchange of information. My suspicion is that Washington wanted to deliver a message that was considered too sensitive or consequential to communicate through normal diplomatic channels.

Exactly what that message concerned remains unknown, and it is important not to present speculation as fact. It may have involved Russia’s plans in Ukraine, the possibility of escalation involving NATO, Iran and the Strait of Hormuz, or something else entirely. Given the increasingly threatening rhetoric coming from Moscow, however, it is reasonable to believe that the administration wanted the Kremlin to understand there are limits it should not cross.

The larger problem for Washington is that Vladimir Putin has spent years demonstrating that he does not view relations with the United States primarily through the lens of friendship or personal diplomacy. A former American official featured during the broadcast argued that Putin sees the United States as an adversary seeking to weaken Russia and therefore interprets unilateral concessions not as gestures of goodwill but as opportunities to demand more. Whatever one thinks of President Trump’s approach to Moscow, that is an important reality to keep in mind when dealing with the Kremlin.

Russia Is Testing Europe

While the diplomacy takes place behind closed doors, the military pressure is increasingly visible. Russian drones have been appearing beyond Ukraine’s borders, part of what I see as a broader pattern of asymmetric pressure against European countries. The transcript describes five Russian drones entering Moldova and another Shahed-type drone reaching Hungary, incidents that come as Moscow repeatedly warns European governments against providing military support to Ukraine.

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