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Chuck Holton is an American war correspondent, published author, and motivational speaker.
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INCELs Strike Again

Old Problem, New Threat

And God blessed them. And God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” Genesis 1:28

They call themselves INCELS, or “Involuntary celibates — young men depressed by their inability to get a girlfriend. This is not a new phenomenon…after all, men have lamented their inability to snag a mate since time immemorial. When I was in school, the inability to hook up with a member of the opposite sex was probably the norm, not the exception. I guess most of us could have called ourselves “INCELS” at one time or another.

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But now something’s changed. The internet allows many of these guys to turn to pornography and violent video games to soothe their frustration. So much time online takes them deep into a toxic mix of loneliness and isolation.

Jared Reed is an Associate Pastor at Granite Hills Baptist Church in Reno, Nevada. When I sat down with him to discuss this issue, he said very directly, “Look, this is a problem across the country, but I believe our area is especially bad. We have so many young guys who are addicted to porn, video games, and social media. It is undoubtedly a form of slavery.”

“We’re not talking about a fun thing to do with somebody physically sitting next to you for a few minutes on a rainy afternoon,” He continued. “We’re talking about weeks poured into an immersive environment, and at a very high cost.” Reed went on to relate a story of one man who was spending as much of his limited income on video games every month as he was on rent. That’s a problem.

Young men are increasingly hanging out with friends in the virtual world via massive multiplayer online games more than they are spending time with people in the real world, “meatspace,” as some call it. Online, they can form teams, explore and conquer worlds, shoot bad guys, pilot or parachute from planes, all without leaving the well-padded, air-conditioned comfort of their bedrooms.

The Author at age ~10
When I was a kid we’d go exploring, conquering, fighting and such too. We called it “playing outside.” Believe me, the graphics were incredible. Zero-latency.

But today’s young men are not allowed to do that, even if they wanted to. A report investigating the relationship between exposure to nature and mental health1 found that the average distance a young man is allowed to roam from his home unsupervised in 2020 is only about 300 yards. Most Americans spend 93% of their time indoors! Contrast that to my grandfather’s generation, which according to this report spent more time outdoors than in, walked most everywhere and roamed up to six miles away from home unsupervised.

When I was a kid, I rode my bike everywhere. It was about four miles to our church and a little more to my best friend Shane’s house. Between going to school, doing my paper route, and visiting friends I easily racked up ten miles a day or more on my old BMX.

Today’s kids are barely allowed to leave their front lawn. Many parents would say that’s because of the threat of abduction. Some whack job or pervert is likely to grab their kid off the street and murder him. Only that’s not borne out by the data. According to a report from the federal Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention, of the 73.9 million children in America, only about a hundred of those are kidnapped each year by someone unknown to them. Ninety-three percent of those are eventually returned alive to their families. That means a kid in America today has a 0.00000014 chance of being kidnapped and murdered by some rando while out playing unsupervised. A kid is 1,600 times more likely to drown than be abducted.

But the mere perception of danger is enough for many American parents to treat their kids like useless toy poodles and keep them indoors, drive them anywhere they need to go, and as a result, make them much more likely to be obese, isolated, and antisocial.

Human beings were created for physical touch. We thrive on it. From breastfeeding to kissing to handshakes to wrestling to the very act of procreation, we are hard-wired to need human touch. Babies who are not held and cuddled often fail to thrive. Marriages fail, too, when there is no intimacy. Everyone needs touch.

But INCELS very often live their lives devoid of physical interaction of any kind. Their lives are spent online, connected to the entire world like never before but starving for love and physical affection. To make matters worse, they are almost universally addicted to porn, which cruelly forces them into the role of spectators to the most intimate of human touch, a constant reminder of what they don’t have. This creates in them a profound level of anger and self-loathing.

22-year-old self-described INCEL (name withheld) went on a killing spree in Isla Vista, California in 2014 to punish women who would not go out with him.
They begin to resent the world of “normies,” those people they see at school or in town who appear to have everything. They begin to hate “Chads,” who personify men who are perhaps richer or more attractive than they are, and “Stacys,” the “shallow” women who partner with them.

These INCEL men end up congregating in online chat groups at places like 4chan, and sort of stew in their own juices. They complain to each other about the inability to find a partner, about how shallow women are, and convince each other that they have a right to the kind of circus-act sexual trysts they see in pornographic movies. And because their world doesn’t readily offer up those opportunities, they come to believe the world deserves to be punished.

This is where things get dangerous.

Mark Lundgren is a former FBI agent who has been tracking this phenomenon. As we discussed it one day, he told me, “INCELS are made up of mostly white younger men who have sort of descended into a dark place on the internet, an echo chamber that is reverberating with a toxic ideology. They don’t think anything’s going to change in the world. They are extremely nihilistic and believe society needs to be punished. It’s a movement we’re seeing rise up much more significantly than we have in the past.”

Indeed we are. The FBI has identified at least four active violence attacks and forty-five deaths in the past few years that have been carried out by men adhering to INCEL ideology.

In 2014, a man identifying with the INCEL movement killed six and injured fourteen in Isla Vista, California. Before going on his rampage, he wrote, “I’ve been forced to endure an existence of loneliness, rejection, and unfulfilled desires all because girls have never been attracted to me.” He went on to say, “One day INCELS will realize their true strength and numbers, and will overthrow this oppressive feminist system. Start envisioning a world where WOMEN FEAR YOU.”

In 2015, a 26-year-old INCEL murdered nine people and wounded others before committing suicide at Umpqua Community College in Roseburg, Oregon. He, too, lamented his inability to get a girl.

In 2017, an INCEL killed two students at a high school in New Mexico before killing himself. Before the event, he wrote, “Work sucks, school sucks, life sucks. I just want out of this [expletive].”

The massacre of 17 high schoolers at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida, happened on Valentine’s Day, and not for no reason. The shooter has become the poster boy for many in the INCEL movement.

A mass shooting was thwarted in January 2019 in Provo, Utah, after a 27-year-old man posted the following on his social media account, “I’ve never had a girlfriend before and I’m still a virgin, this is why I’m planning on shooting up a public place soon and being the next mass shooter cause I’m ready to die and all the girls the [sic] turned me down is going to make it right by killings as many girls as I see.”

Aside from their obvious failures with women, how many of these guys do you think got zero hugs and pats on the back at home? How many of them would you think were heavily into violent video games? How many were addicted to online porn? If you guessed all of them, you’d be right.

But these kinds of addictions aren’t just the domain of unemployed losers who are one step from plunging over the brink. In our interview, Pastor Jared said, “Of the men I’ve counseled over the past five years, I cannot recall one for whom pornography isn’t a struggle. And we’re not just talking about young single men. I’ve counseled men from 17 to 75 who were struggling with porn addiction.”

Two young men from his church agreed to share their journey away from these addictions with me. Carson and Allen (not their real names) both struggled with video games and porn addiction.

Carson, age 37 and now married told me, “Video games definitely make you more reclusive, just by their nature, and made me less sociable. With pornography I’d say looking back it gave me unbelievably high expectations that no woman would be able to achieve.”

His buddy Austin, age 20 said of the games he used to play, “It’s all violence. And for me, a lot of those video games they make you angry. And you might play for a couple of hours and maybe you don’t win and you just…it just leaves me mad and it just kind of sets the tone for the rest of the day.”

This underscores why human interaction and especially human touch are so important. Mark Lundgren agreed. “Without community surrounding us,” he said, “We can go so deep into the internet, so isolated, so without hope, so dark and that I think can absolutely be a tool of strategic evil when it’s not checked.”

Jared agreed 100%. “The real change seems to happen when they are ready to get radical about dealing with this sin, putting it to death,” he said, paraphrasing Colossians 3:5. “Men who make the changes, who start to experience victory in this area, it’s a wonderful snowball.”

He’s right. Unlike Heracles and his new pet Cerberus, it’s not enough to try to chain up your hidden sins. A man of prowess must go all in. He must tear out and throw into the fire those things that cause him to give in. He must hunt down his weaknesses and kill them by embracing hardship in this life.

Fortunately, a man submitted to the Holy Spirit has help in this endeavor. Carson put it this way: “I gave my life to Christ, and I couldn’t do any of those things anymore. It completely purged me of my pornography addiction, my alcohol addiction, I completely lost interest in all my video games.”

Not every man will have such a black-and-white experience. I’ve been saved for decades and still struggle with besetting sins. Engaging the enemy of our own weakness is a daily battle every man must fight. In so doing, we will undoubtedly have a few setbacks now and then, but we never lose unless we stop fighting. The Apostle Paul knew what that was like, when he wrote, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” (2 Timothy 4:7)

My book Prowess — The Man You Were Meant To Be is for those of us who are still in the fight. It’s a manual to help you learn how to win in very practical, down-to-earth ways. The book is primarily aimed at the young lions who often approach me after a speaking engagement with questions about how to do manhood right. But even if you aren’t a young lion, it’s good to remember the really important things now and then.

This article is an excerpt of the book “Prowess — The Man You Were Meant To Be” by Chuck Holton

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The War Is Expanding in Ways Most People Still Don’t Understand

When you look at a war from a distance, it often appears as a series of disconnected events—headlines that flare up for a moment before being replaced by the next crisis—but when you step closer, when you begin to follow the patterns instead of the noise, you start to see something else entirely taking shape.

That’s where we are right now.

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Because what’s happening in the Middle East is no longer just a regional conflict or a contained military campaign; it is evolving into something broader, something more complex, and something that carries consequences far beyond the battlefield itself.

And yet, much of the world still hasn’t caught up to that reality.

 

A Campaign That Looks Decisive—On the Surface

From a strictly military perspective, the United States and its allies have demonstrated overwhelming capability in the early phase of this conflict, applying sustained pressure across multiple domains in a way that has steadily degraded Iran’s ability to operate as it once did.

Precision strikes have targeted key infrastructure, weapons systems, and logistical networks, while naval and air forces have established a level of dominance that allows for continued operations with relatively limited resistance.

In the span of weeks, thousands of targets have been hit, and the cumulative effect of those strikes is beginning to show, not just in the reduction of missile and drone activity, but in the overall tempo of Iran’s response.

There are fewer launches, fewer coordinated attacks, and more signs that the system is being strained.

From the outside, it looks like momentum is clearly on one side.

But that is only part of the story.

 

The Reality Beneath the Surface

Wars are rarely decided by what happens in the opening phase, and they are almost never as simple as they appear in the early days when one side seems to hold a decisive advantage.

Because beneath the visible structures—the bases, the launchers, the facilities—there exists a deeper layer of power that is far more difficult to dismantle.

In Iran’s case, that layer is not confined to a single institution or location; it is distributed across a network of political, military, and economic forces that are designed to function even under extreme pressure.

The clerical leadership provides ideological continuity, the civilian government maintains a façade of governance, and the Islamic Revolutionary Guard Corps operates as the backbone of real authority, controlling not only military assets but significant portions of the country’s economic infrastructure.

This is not a system that collapses simply because key targets are destroyed. It adapts. It absorbs damage. And it continues.

 

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And the picture right now is this: we are winning the fight… but we may not yet know how to win the war.

That distinction matters more than most people realize.

 

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From where I’m sitting, looking at the operational updates coming out of the region, it’s hard to deny that the United States and its allies have achieved something remarkable in a very short amount of time, because in just a matter of weeks, we’ve systematically dismantled large portions of Iran’s ability to project power beyond its borders.

We’re talking about thousands upon thousands of strikes, carefully selected targets, and a level of coordination across air, land, sea, and even space that very few countries on earth could pull off, and the result of that effort is starting to show up in ways that are impossible to ignore.

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The Enemy Isn’t Just Targets—It’s a System

One of the biggest mistakes people make when they look at a conflict like this is assuming that if you destroy enough infrastructure, if you take out enough launchers, enough facilities, enough depots, eventually the whole thing just collapses on its own.

And sometimes that’s true. But not here. Because Iran isn’t just a collection of targets scattered across a map—it’s a layered system of power that doesn’t rely on any single node to survive, and the deeper you dig into how that system works, the more complicated the problem becomes.

At the top, you have the clerical leadership, the religious authority that shapes the ideology of the regime and maintains its grip on the population through a network that stretches across the entire country, and while we’ve taken out some of that leadership, there are thousands more who could step into those roles if needed.

Then you have the civilian government, which on paper is supposed to run the country but in reality often finds itself sidelined by forces it doesn’t fully control. And beneath all of that, you have the real engine of power—the Islamic Revolutionary Guard Corps.

The IRGC isn’t just a military force, and it’s important to understand that, because they don’t just fight wars, they control industries, they influence politics, and they operate as a kind of shadow government that can continue functioning even when the visible structures above them start to crack.

So when you hear that we’ve struck thousands of targets, understand that we’re hitting pieces of a system that was designed to absorb that kind of punishment and keep going.

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A massive oil tanker, the Al-Salmi, had been struck just off Dubai.

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Farmers in large parts of the world don’t have the luxury of waiting. There’s a window—a narrow one—when crops have to be planted. If fertilizer doesn’t arrive in time, yields drop. And when yields drop across multiple regions at once, you don’t just get higher prices. You get shortages. In places like Africa and parts of Asia, that’s not an inconvenience—it’s a crisis.

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Now here’s where things get complicated, because if you’re looking strictly at the battlefield, the United States is doing exactly what it set out to do.

According to Brad Cooper, U.S. forces have struck more than 11,000 targets inside Iran, dismantling key elements of their military infrastructure and steadily eroding their ability to project power beyond their borders.

You’re seeing it in the numbers, but you’re also seeing it in the pattern of attacks.

Missile launches are down. Drone activity is decreasing. Naval capabilities are being chipped away piece by piece. There was even a moment recently when Israel experienced a full night without incoming missile alerts—something that would have seemed unthinkable just weeks ago.

From a tactical standpoint, it’s hard to argue with the results.

But wars aren’t won on spreadsheets, and they’re not decided by how many targets you can check off a list.

Because the deeper you look into Iran, the more you start to understand just how vast and layered the problem really is.

The Problem You Can’t Bomb Away

There’s a moment in every conflict where you realize that destruction alone isn’t going to get you where you need to go, and we may be approaching that moment here. Iran isn’t a single target. It’s not even a collection of targets. It’s a system.

You have the clerical leadership at the top—thousands of religious figures who shape ideology and influence. You have the civilian government, which on paper runs the country but in practice often struggles to assert control. And then you have the real power center: the Islamic Revolutionary Guard Corps.

The IRGC isn’t just a military force. It’s an economic empire, a political machine, and a shadow government all rolled into one. Estimates put their numbers somewhere between 250,000 and 500,000 personnel, embedded across every sector that matters. You can degrade that system. You can disrupt it. You can hit its infrastructure again and again. But you can’t simply erase it from the air.

And if the objective is lasting change, that creates a dilemma. Because the alternative—boots on the ground—comes with its own set of realities that are far harder to ignore.

The Reality of Ground War

At one point in the briefing, the question came up: what could we actually do with the forces currently in the region?

On paper, the numbers sound substantial. But when you break them down, the number of actual combat troops—what you might call “trigger pullers”—is much smaller.

And when you start mapping out potential objectives—nuclear facilities, missile farms, hardened underground complexes—you quickly realize how limited those numbers really are.

Take something like a deeply buried facility hidden beneath a mountain, with multiple entrances, reinforced tunnels, and defensive positions spread across the surrounding terrain. Securing a site like that wouldn’t be a quick raid. It would require layered operations, perimeter control, logistics, and sustained presence. Not hours. Days, maybe weeks. And all of it taking place hundreds of miles from friendly territory, with supply lines stretched thin and the constant threat of counterattack. This isn’t Iraq in 2003. It’s not Afghanistan in 2001.

This is something else.

The Only Way Out Might Be the One Nobody Trusts

So where does that leave us?

According to Pete Hegseth and others inside the administration, there are signs—quiet ones—that elements within Iran are looking for a way out. Not publicly, of course. Publicly, the message is defiance. But behind the scenes, there are indications that conversations may be happening. If that’s true, it presents an opportunity. But it also raises a question.

Can you negotiate with a system that isn’t unified? Can you strike a deal with people who might not survive long enough to honor it?

And even if you could, the conditions being demanded—complete dismantling of missile programs, nuclear capabilities, and proxy networks—aren’t small concessions. They’re surrender terms. Which means any offramp, if it exists at all, is going to be narrow.

What Happens Next

If you zoom out far enough, what you see right now is a conflict that’s only a month old, but already stretching into territory that usually takes years to reach.

The average war lasts about three years. We’re just getting started. And yet, in that short time, the stakes have already expanded beyond the battlefield—into energy markets, into food supply chains, into alliances that are starting to show strain under pressure. The Strait of Hormuz is still open, technically. Ships are still moving. But something fundamental has changed. Because once a system starts to lose predictability, once the rules become optional, every decision—from shipping routes to military strategy—has to account for the possibility that tomorrow won’t look anything like today. And that’s when things tend to escalate. Not all at once. But step by step, until one day you look up and realize you’re somewhere you never planned to be.

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