"Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and dine with him, and he with Me. To him who overcomes I will grant to sit with Me on My throne, as I also overcame and sat down with My Father on His throne." (Revelation 3:20-21)
In the kingdom of God, relational intimacy leads to places of divine authority. Only those who fellowship with Jesus now—the deep communion that dining together represents—will be entrusted to rule with Him later (2 Timothy 2:12; Revelation 20:6). Likewise, only those who endure suffering with Him in the present age will reign with Him in the coming glory (Romans 8:17). In other words, only those who humbly abide in Jesus and endure with Him in life's trials will be exalted to authority in the kingdom of Heaven. As it is written, some will be called least in it and some will be called great (Matthew 5:19)!
Here is a perfect example of how relational intimacy (fellowship) with Jesus Christ precedes kingdom authority:
"But you are those who have continued with Me in My trials. And I bestow upon you a kingdom, just as My Father bestowed one upon Me, that you may eat and drink at My table in My kingdom, and sit on thrones judging the twelve tribes of Israel.” (Luke 22:28-30)