Chuck Holton
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Make Him a Man: America Depends on It
November 13, 2024

Hey, you’re a parent. It’s a free country, and they’re your kids—you can raise them however you want. But remember, the rest of us are going to be living in the world with them too. And frankly, we’re frustrated with what we see: weak, overly sheltered boys who have been taught to avoid discomfort and to eschew risk at all costs. They’re careful, quiet, and spend most of their lives watching screens instead of facing the world head-on. They’ve become like pampered little poodles, sitting comfortably on the couch, always taking the path of least resistance.

But here’s the problem: these boys will grow up. One day, they’ll be expected to step into roles as providers, protectors, and leaders. Unfortunately, while they’ve spent their youth on easy streets, coddled and swaddled in air-conditioned comfort, there are other young men out there living a very different reality. Boys in tough corners of the world sleep in the dirt, go without food, do back-breaking labor, and carry responsibilities far beyond their years. For them, hardship isn’t something to be avoided; it’s simply life.

And make no mistake: these young men have been taught to despise us. They see our culture as soft, self-indulgent, and unprincipled. And they’re not wrong.

While we’re busy raising sons who’ve never even heard a hard “no” in their lives, these other boys—young men from Syria, Afghanistan, North Africa—are taught to be strong, relentless, and unyielding. They’re being prepared for a fight we’ve barely begun to notice. I’ve seen them. They don’t dream of coming to America to join us; they plan to conquer what they view as a decaying, soft society. And if we’re not vigilant, they’ll do it without resistance.

Like it or not, our sons may one day have to square off against those hardened young men who grew up knowing only struggle. And when that day comes, will your comfortable, sheltered son be ready? Can he protect himself and the people he loves? Or have you inadvertently raised him to be just another liability?

Not every boy will be a warrior, but some must be. And if you think we can keep the peace indefinitely without raising men capable of standing up for what they believe in, think again. This isn’t just about self-defense; it’s about producing strong men who can preserve our way of life. Because those of us who have been on the frontlines? We’re not getting any younger, and the burden of protection won’t rest on our shoulders forever.

America needs more young men who are tough, capable, and morally straight. But take a hard look around: is your son that man? Or is he too distracted with his virtual worlds to even consider the real one? Are you unintentionally raising him to be irrelevant—or worse, a weak spot in America’s armor?

My son Mason, age 9

 

Boys aren’t meant to stay soft. They’re meant to grow into strong men, able to protect, provide, and fiercely love the people who depend on them. Sure, not all of them will end up on the battlefield, but life itself can be a battleground. Whether he’s facing an enemy, supporting his family, or simply holding firm in the face of hardship, your son will need the resilience to take on whatever life throws at him. And resilience isn’t something you get from a comfortable, cushy upbringing.

Raising a boy to be a man means setting him up to embrace discomfort, to learn from struggle, to build character. If you’re doing everything in your power to keep him happy, entertained, and out of danger, let’s face it—you’re part of the problem.

Instead, give your son controlled doses of hardship every day. Let him feel fear, and then teach him to overcome it. Give him responsibility from the moment he can handle it. Discipline him with purpose, set high expectations, and don’t give in when he pushes back. He’s not in charge—you are. And it’s your duty to prepare him to lead one day.

America needs strong men—so raise one. The country, and our way of life, depend on it.

 

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A massive oil tanker, the Al-Salmi, had been struck just off Dubai.

Now, that alone would be enough to raise eyebrows. But this wasn’t some empty vessel drifting through contested waters. This ship was fully loaded—over two million barrels of crude—and quietly making its way toward China under what was supposed to be a kind of uneasy understanding with Iran. The rules, as they had been laid out, were simple enough: if you were friendly, or if your cargo was headed to someone Iran considered friendly, you’d be allowed through the Strait of Hormuz.

Except this time, that understanding didn’t hold. The drone hit anyway. And just like that, the illusion of control—whatever fragile version of it existed—started to crack.

When the Rules Stop Meaning Anything

What you’re watching unfold right now isn’t just another escalation in a long-running conflict. It’s something more subtle and, in many ways, more dangerous. It’s the moment when the rules that everyone pretends to follow suddenly stop being reliable.

For weeks, Iran has been signaling that it could manage the flow of traffic through the Strait—tightening it, regulating it, even monetizing it by charging massive tolls for passage. It was a bold move, but it came with an implicit promise: play by our rules, and you’ll get through. But when a ship that meets those conditions gets hit anyway, that promise evaporates. And when that happens, markets don’t wait around for explanations. They react.

Oil prices have been climbing steadily, inching their way past thresholds that start to make governments nervous and consumers uneasy. We’re now looking at crude pushing well past $100 a barrel, with some grades climbing even higher, and that upward pressure isn’t coming from speculation alone—it’s coming from uncertainty.

Because once trust disappears from a critical chokepoint like the Strait of Hormuz, everything that depends on it becomes unstable.

And that’s where the real story begins.

This Was Never Just About Oil

Most people hear “Strait of Hormuz” and think oil—and yes, that’s a big part of it. But if that’s all you’re seeing, you’re missing the bigger picture.

What moves through that narrow stretch of water isn’t just fuel for your car or heating for your home. It’s also the backbone of global agriculture. A significant portion of the world’s nitrogen-based fertilizer passes through that same corridor, and without it, entire planting seasons can collapse.

And here’s the problem: timing.

Farmers in large parts of the world don’t have the luxury of waiting. There’s a window—a narrow one—when crops have to be planted. If fertilizer doesn’t arrive in time, yields drop. And when yields drop across multiple regions at once, you don’t just get higher prices. You get shortages. In places like Africa and parts of Asia, that’s not an inconvenience—it’s a crisis.

So when you see a tanker burning off the coast of Dubai, you’re not just looking at a military incident. You’re looking at the first tremors of something that could ripple through global food systems months from now.

That’s the part nobody’s putting in the headlines yet.

Winning the Fight—and Still Losing the War

Now here’s where things get complicated, because if you’re looking strictly at the battlefield, the United States is doing exactly what it set out to do.

According to Brad Cooper, U.S. forces have struck more than 11,000 targets inside Iran, dismantling key elements of their military infrastructure and steadily eroding their ability to project power beyond their borders.

You’re seeing it in the numbers, but you’re also seeing it in the pattern of attacks.

Missile launches are down. Drone activity is decreasing. Naval capabilities are being chipped away piece by piece. There was even a moment recently when Israel experienced a full night without incoming missile alerts—something that would have seemed unthinkable just weeks ago.

From a tactical standpoint, it’s hard to argue with the results.

But wars aren’t won on spreadsheets, and they’re not decided by how many targets you can check off a list.

Because the deeper you look into Iran, the more you start to understand just how vast and layered the problem really is.

The Problem You Can’t Bomb Away

There’s a moment in every conflict where you realize that destruction alone isn’t going to get you where you need to go, and we may be approaching that moment here. Iran isn’t a single target. It’s not even a collection of targets. It’s a system.

You have the clerical leadership at the top—thousands of religious figures who shape ideology and influence. You have the civilian government, which on paper runs the country but in practice often struggles to assert control. And then you have the real power center: the Islamic Revolutionary Guard Corps.

The IRGC isn’t just a military force. It’s an economic empire, a political machine, and a shadow government all rolled into one. Estimates put their numbers somewhere between 250,000 and 500,000 personnel, embedded across every sector that matters. You can degrade that system. You can disrupt it. You can hit its infrastructure again and again. But you can’t simply erase it from the air.

And if the objective is lasting change, that creates a dilemma. Because the alternative—boots on the ground—comes with its own set of realities that are far harder to ignore.

The Reality of Ground War

At one point in the briefing, the question came up: what could we actually do with the forces currently in the region?

On paper, the numbers sound substantial. But when you break them down, the number of actual combat troops—what you might call “trigger pullers”—is much smaller.

And when you start mapping out potential objectives—nuclear facilities, missile farms, hardened underground complexes—you quickly realize how limited those numbers really are.

Take something like a deeply buried facility hidden beneath a mountain, with multiple entrances, reinforced tunnels, and defensive positions spread across the surrounding terrain. Securing a site like that wouldn’t be a quick raid. It would require layered operations, perimeter control, logistics, and sustained presence. Not hours. Days, maybe weeks. And all of it taking place hundreds of miles from friendly territory, with supply lines stretched thin and the constant threat of counterattack. This isn’t Iraq in 2003. It’s not Afghanistan in 2001.

This is something else.

The Only Way Out Might Be the One Nobody Trusts

So where does that leave us?

According to Pete Hegseth and others inside the administration, there are signs—quiet ones—that elements within Iran are looking for a way out. Not publicly, of course. Publicly, the message is defiance. But behind the scenes, there are indications that conversations may be happening. If that’s true, it presents an opportunity. But it also raises a question.

Can you negotiate with a system that isn’t unified? Can you strike a deal with people who might not survive long enough to honor it?

And even if you could, the conditions being demanded—complete dismantling of missile programs, nuclear capabilities, and proxy networks—aren’t small concessions. They’re surrender terms. Which means any offramp, if it exists at all, is going to be narrow.

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If you zoom out far enough, what you see right now is a conflict that’s only a month old, but already stretching into territory that usually takes years to reach.

The average war lasts about three years. We’re just getting started. And yet, in that short time, the stakes have already expanded beyond the battlefield—into energy markets, into food supply chains, into alliances that are starting to show strain under pressure. The Strait of Hormuz is still open, technically. Ships are still moving. But something fundamental has changed. Because once a system starts to lose predictability, once the rules become optional, every decision—from shipping routes to military strategy—has to account for the possibility that tomorrow won’t look anything like today. And that’s when things tend to escalate. Not all at once. But step by step, until one day you look up and realize you’re somewhere you never planned to be.

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The reaction was immediate and intense. Critics warned that such a move could constitute a war crime. Supporters framed it as decisive leadership. But beneath the surface of that debate lies a more important question—one that has received far less attention.

What was the ultimatum actually meant to accomplish?

Because in practical terms, deadlines of this kind rarely function as leverage against regimes like Iran. Instead, they tend to place pressure on the one issuing them. When a leader publicly commits to a course of action within a fixed window, failure to follow through risks undermining credibility. In that sense, the ultimatum may have been as much a test of American resolve as it was a warning to Tehran.

Iran’s response reflected that reality. Rather than backing down, officials signaled indifference, even inviting escalation. For a regime that has repeatedly demonstrated a willingness to sacrifice civilian welfare for strategic advantage, threats against infrastructure are unlikely to produce compliance. If anything, they provide an opportunity to shift the narrative and rally international sympathy.

Within days, the administration adjusted course—extending the timeline and suggesting that diplomatic channels might still be open. Whether those negotiations are genuine or simply part of a broader strategy remains unclear. Iranian officials have publicly denied that talks are taking place, while the United States has offered little verifiable detail.

But while public messaging has shifted, developments on the ground tell a more consequential story.

 

A Significant Military Buildup

In parallel with these political signals, the United States has quietly moved substantial forces into the region. Open-source reporting indicates at least three dozen strategic airlift missions—primarily C-17 aircraft—departing from major U.S. installations associated with special operations forces.

These include bases such as Fort Bragg, Hunter Army Airfield, and Joint Base Lewis-McChord—locations known for housing elite units including Army Rangers, Green Berets, and other specialized elements.

The scale and origin of these deployments strongly suggest preparation for targeted operations rather than routine reinforcement. Historically, such movements precede the formation of a combined joint special operations task force, designed to execute precise, high-value missions with speed and limited footprint.

These units are not conventional ground forces intended for prolonged occupation. Their role is far more focused: rapid insertion, objective neutralization, and immediate extraction.

 

Strategic Objectives Taking Shape

If such operations are imminent, the likely targets are not difficult to identify.

First, control of the Strait of Hormuz remains central to the conflict. Several small islands—Greater Tunb, Lesser Tunb, and Abu Musa—provide Iran with direct oversight of maritime traffic through the strait. Securing or neutralizing these positions would significantly reduce Iran’s ability to threaten global shipping.

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Day 20 of the Iran War: Escalation, Energy Pressure, and the Battle Over the Narrative

Twenty days into the war with Iran, the pace of operations is not slowing in any meaningful way. If anything, the tempo is increasing. Despite repeated claims from pundits and political commentators that the conflict is nearing some natural plateau, the public statements coming from both Washington and Jerusalem point in the opposite direction. U.S. and Israeli forces continue to expand the scale and depth of their campaign, targeting military infrastructure, industrial production, naval assets, and energy-related vulnerabilities inside Iran.

Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth said this morning that U.S. forces are still setting records for the number of targets struck per day. The Israelis have now reported approximately 8,500 targets hit since the conflict began, and by their own assessment they are not even halfway through the target set. That matters, because it underscores a basic reality that many casual observers miss: Iran is a vast country with deep infrastructure, difficult terrain, and a military architecture built over decades to absorb punishment and continue operating under pressure. This was never going to be resolved in a matter of days.

What has changed, however, is the scale of degradation already inflicted on Iran’s military capacity. According to the Pentagon, Iranian ballistic missile attacks against U.S. forces are down roughly 90 percent since the war began, and the same is reportedly true of one-way attack drones. That does not mean Iran has stopped firing. It means its capacity to sustain previous rates of attack has been severely reduced. Iran would be shooting much more if it still could. The fact that it cannot tells us something important about how much damage has already been done to its production lines, storage facilities, launch systems, and command structure.

The naval picture is even more striking. Hegseth stated that more than 120 Iranian naval vessels have been damaged or sunk, with battle damage assessments still pending on many others. Iran’s submarine fleet, once counted at eleven boats, has reportedly been eliminated as an effective fighting force. Its surface fleet is no longer a significant factor in the conflict, and its military ports have been badly crippled. In practical terms, that means Iran’s ability to project power at sea, mine shipping lanes, and sustain meaningful maritime pressure has been heavily reduced. U.S. Central Command continues to publish footage of strikes against Iranian boats in and around the Gulf, indicating that forces are still finding and destroying targets at sea rather than running out of them.

That point is worth emphasizing because one of the recurring narratives in recent days has been that the campaign is somehow reaching exhaustion. President Trump himself joked about the idea that there were “no targets left,” but the reality is exactly the opposite. There are many targets left, and the coalition is still expanding the strike list as Iranian assets are exposed, relocated, or activated in response to pressure.

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